Become A better student-Episode 3; A Negated double double in School
By Igboamalu Chimezie Nelson
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Now let's get straight to business. People live a double life as we have discussed in our last article. But its worse when you lead a negated double life. A negated life is a pattern of life that is led against the societal norm, laws, regulation and sometimes culture of the community. Usually a negative person see life and happenings within from a negative light. They do mostly view things wrongly. They take the wrong way of life, and detach value from things they do or others do.
They are scared sometimes to take positive steps in life and often discourage people who gear towards positivity
In higher institution a negative person is almost easy to find as water is. They miss classes, often party even in the wrong times.
One time I attended a parent teachers meeting in one of the public schools in Abuja( Nigeria), one of the most important issues raised was about a student who knifed another student in the process of bullying. It is so disheartening to know that younger ones in high(secondary) school could use a weapon on another student even in such closely monitored as that.
Point is, before someone could do a thing like that, he would have under gone several thoughts, when he allowed the negative over come the positive, he would go ahead and do it.
Partying is never a bad Idea, it is good to make merry, be joyful, and elated while in school. This is all part of living as a young person, but whatever parties you will attend is up to you. It is up to you to know the ones which are up building and degrading to your person, If you would love to live life to the fullest.
In higher institution globally, several forms of negated lives flourish. Prostitution in schools of higher learning is rampant. Its so alarming because most females get carried away by ostentatious commodities, they give up their virtue so cheaply. Sometimes even with providing parents, some youths and students foolishly fall prey. Sometimes this is easy because if influence by peer group. Some wants to be seen among the high and mighty on campus.
Always remember that you don't have to read a life of negations to show how important you are to the society.
If you really want to show how big you are, do it in the classroom, if you want to be intimidating then set your standard that no one can break; grab all distinction.
Negative Trends Found On Campus
There are several negative trends found on campuses, for the purpose of this episode we shall only discuss two very high trendy ones on campuses around the world while we discuss some other ones on the next episode.
Cultism
This is alarming in most modern campuses today. Cultism is found even in high schools in Africa. This a life you would never want to be associated with. sadly, so many people struggle to stay away others embrace thus way of life. A cult group is often have secret unapproved gatherings were they plan terror against people. Cultism has killed so many dreams and wasted lives in higher institution.
Smoking
Sometimes you would wonder what people gain from lighting up their body when there is a scorching sun. Smoking is one negative life that most students undertake that can rip you off your future. Most tobacco companies make it a point of duty to tell you the adverse effects if smoking with a phrase "smokers are liable to die young" yet it is very much ignored and most students go into it without looking back.
Other forms of negated life that we will discuss in the next episode are;
Unprotected sex
Peer pressure
Procrastination
This will also contain a real guides to what you can do to save yourself from all the aforementioned negative threats found in students.
If there are more negative threats you feel want us to treat or a story about this information, please drop a comment.
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Read about our last article A double life here!
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